A GOOD TALK is an analysis of and guide to that most exclusively human of all activities-- conversation.Drawing on over forty years of experience in American letters, Menaker pinpoints the factors that drive and enliven every good conversation: the vagaries (and joys) of subtext; the deeper structure and meaning of conversational flow; the subliminal signals that guide our disclosures and confessions; and the countless other hurdles we must clear along the way. Moving beyond self-help musings and "how to" advice, he has created a stylish, funny, and surprising book: a celebration of "the most excusively human of all activities."
In a time when conversation remains deeply important-- for building relationships, for relaxing, even for figuring out who we are-- and also increasingly imperiled (with Blackberries and texting increasingly in vogue), A GOOD TALK is a refreshing celebration of the subtle adventures of a good conversation.
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My Review:
I was interested in figuring out how to make better conversations and I did get some good tips from this book, but it also had a lot of things that are more common sense or things I already knew such as things you shouldn't do. There were some parts I found kind of boring and I had a hard time staying focused, such as when he talked about Socrates, I really didn't care.
There are a lot of great tips in this book that I think all people should read. One of which was about handshakes. He talks about how you should not do a death grip, but you also shouldn't be a limp fish...it should be firm and confident and just the right amount of time, not too long. I completely agree with this and have always been a big believer that handshakes can say a lot about a person. I have had quite a few people compliment me on my handshakes and I can't stand it when someone has a wimpy handshake, to me it means they have no confidence. I also hate it when their handshake makes me wince, to me that means they are over compensating for something.
Overall, this was an interesting book and if you (or someone you know) needs some tips on how to be a better conversationalist (or just need to know what not to say and do), then this is the book for you!
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